When your boss feels bad about firing you and makes it worse

You may be familiar with that time when your boss is more concerned about how bad THEY feel while giving you bad news. Here’s a story about my frustrations, that would be warranted, had my boss allowed room for anyone’s feelings beyond her own.

So I lost my job…… was a real blow, but I tried to keep my chin up and avoid the terrible human need to misdirect my frustration toward others. We all do it, you know that, by consciously deciding to “Try” not to lash out. That sets us apart…